The separation of their parents because so many evils to children, particularly children.
fact children physically and mentally and are made up by the psycho-physical reality of two parents who are still their life that makes them grow, at least throughout the time of the lower age.
The loss of separation is at least one component of this principle of life to which children are naturally and necessarily linked and dependent, and thus creates a state of mortification in all children.
Their stay with either parent is always a compensation, which tends to cover this gap mortifying. Other
evil of separation and divorce is the 'orphan el' abandonment, despite being assigned to one or other of the two, it is bad to feel orphaned, but it's worse feel orphaned by parents who are still , perché l’esistenza ne fa percepire ogni giorno la perdita.
Comunque sono tanti e prevedibili i problemi psico-fisici che gli orfani debbono affrontare e risolvere, quando è anticipatamente venuta meno una di queste due componenti energetiche vitali. Particolarmente gli orfani diventano facilmente persone insicure, perché la sicurezza del bambino si fonda sull’unione tra papà e mamma; nonostante sia meglio, anche per i figli, che i due genitori si separino, piuttosto che vivere in discordia o continue conflittualità distruttive dell’amore.
Soprattutto è importantissimo considerare ed apprezzare che la separazione dei genitori provoca e sviluppa un più forte legame, stringimento and solidarity among brothers , at the loss of a very important person in their life, felt as a deadly accident, which the brothers feel survivors.
Where any court, or any other person, impose the brothers to go forward in life, but separated : add and would disgrace a disgrace, grief in mourning!
Unfortunately this inequity has come to court, recognized and annulled by the Judge of the Court of Appeal of Salerno, in the name of the "mythology" of ancient Greece.
The separation between the minor children of separated parents : mortification is human to them, as they are considered slave-object - albeit with a value - based on the duty to equitably distribute the goods and evils among the parties entitled to it.
How mortifying is also, unfortunately, the orphanage, or any institution, in which children are placed, the poor, weak or psychophysical: imprisoned because of lack or loss of important factors in their lives, not attributable to their responsibilities .
Why institutions do not grow, as only parents can grow up with their people and by their own means: but influencing bodies and brains, even through the environment and culture.
Dr. G. Basso, psychologist, psychotherapist
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